by Wendy Vigdor-Hess

In everyone’s life there comes a moment when the noises of the external environment pushing us to thrive, prove and perform become too loud to ignore. That is when the quiet whisper from within says: ”Wake Up, It’s Time To Go Within And Love Yourself.”

Self-Love isn’t just a day at the spa or an affirmation you repeat once a week – although both of those things can help.  Self-Love Is A Radical Act Of Turning Inward And Heading Deep Into Your Heart Of Hearts Inside The Temple In Which You Reside.

To begin to Awaken to Self-Love Means That You Are Not Broken Nor Do You Need To Be Fixed, Instead, It Is To Remember That You Are Whole And Complete Exactly As You Are Right Now.

Awakening can happen in a moment, in the quiet of the night, in the middle of chaos, through an illness or at a moment when you have finally had enough.  Waking Up Is a Subtle Yet Seismic Shift From Trying To Fix The Idea That Something Is Wrong With You To Realizing I am Already Enough Exactly As I Am.

This awakening is private and is not for the ego.  It is for your heart.  It is your birthright to take possession of it. As you begin to learn to love yourself… be gentle, be kind and know that it takes time. 

You are breaking patterns that may have existed your entire life. So remember to be kind and easy with yourself as you move through this epic journey. 

The More You Love Yourself, The More The Mirror Will Change.  Where you once saw flaws, you will see growth.  Wrinkles mean joy and wisdom. Stretch marks mean growth and birthing. 

You realize that Beauty Is Not Perfection But Presence. The more you honor and love yourself, the less you tolerate the world’s distorted understanding of Self-Love.

You begin to seek internal validation, not external. Discovering Self-Love means that you not only conceptualize it but you embody it. 

Every morning that you awake you smile knowing that you have been given another day to love yourself. 

You Choose To Nourish Yourself Versus Numb Yourself.  You Choose Rest Over Running After And Chasing After External Success And You STOP Punishing Your Body For Not Being Perfect And Start Thanking It For Carrying Your Soul. 

Your Body Isn’t Your Project; It Is Your Partner. 

It Is Literally The Temple You Live Inside And When You Have Self-Love For That, It Will Love You Back With Ease And Joy And Happiness.

So Here Is The Quiet Magic That Self-Love Provides….

    * The outer world will begin to rearrange itself to match your new frequency. 

    * Old outdated relationships, friendships, family, will dissolve, as new, aligned relationships are created.

    * Opportunities begin to appear almost like magic and are aligned with your calling in life.

    * Synchronicities multiply and what used to feel like rejection or abandonment now feels like redirection and course correction because…

When You Are Awake To Your Own Love, You Stop Chasing It Outside Of You And Everything That Is Meant For You Will Finally Find You.